K, I am a single mother of three children and I have done wrong plenty of times over and over again. I understand that there may be more to this situation that what appears on the tabs, but like it or not the facts of the matter is no matter how bitter a person can be the law is the law. Playing little junior high games will not take away the pain or bring back a failed relationship. I am not justifing what may have gone on in this relationship. To be quite honest with you I really don't care. The simple fact is the laws in New York state if the relationship fails regardless of who's at fault or to blame the item in question must be returned. Cut your ties and let go of your losses. You win some and you loose some. Acting like a little child will not make things better you can lie to yourself if it helps you sleep better at night though.
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